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See The Things That Make A Guy
Lose Interest In A Woman!

The most fascinating thing about dating is
how, what we want and expect to happen
on a date, doesn’t always correspond to
what REALLY happens on a date.
For a couple of seconds, I want you to think
back and remember a guy you dated that
you were immediately attracted to on the
very first date.
Remember how that very first sight gave
you butterflies? Remember how just
thinking about him made you tingle?
Remember how when you weren’t with him,
all you could think about was being with
him again?
Infatuation is a dangerous feeling . But
how does this affect your love life?
Most infatuated women become a little
obsessive. If you’re anything like most
women then you’ll probably start checking
your phone every 5 minutes to see if he
called or texted. You become a little needy.
You constantly tell your friends about him
and share every single detail of your
conversations with them.
You can’t properly communicate with him
because whilst trying not to say the wrong
thing, you often say nothing. Or even
worse, you say something so pointless that
even you can’t believe you actually said
that.
You start feeling stressed and begin to act
nervous. You don’t want to mess anything
up because you like him so much so you’re
no longer as easygoing, relaxed or even
charming when you’re with him.
He gets you overly excited and you show it.

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You compliment him all the time and he
starts to see it. You even tell him that you
see/want a future here.
You start to become weak because you’re
so impressed with him and so concerned
about what he thinks that you put him high
on a pedestal, a rightful place in your mind.
And here’s your biggest mistake.
The moment you put anyone on a pedestal,
they start looking down on you. If up until
that point he thought you were equal, the
moment he’s high and mighty he will
realize that “he’s above you”.
Sadly, this is one of the biggest
drawbacks of being infatuated by a man.
Neediness, nervousness, over excitement
and weakness – these words define a
woman that is infatuated by a new man in
her life.
Sit back and think about them for a second.
Do you find them attractive?
Then it shouldn’t be a big surprise when
that man you like so much, upon seeing a
needy, nervous and weak woman, stops
calling you. With all honesty, what would
you expect him to do? You come out way to
serious about him, way too early and that
obviously scares him away.
It’s sad when you think about it. Wouldn’t
it be much easier to just be yourself
around him? You might think that being
excited comes out as awkward (and that’s
not so bad), being needy comes out as a
devoted girlfriend (which also isn’t bad),
being nervous comes out as being “real”
with him (and that can’t be bad either,
right?). So why is your behavior scaring him
off, if these things can’t be that bad?
To better understand what going on, let’s
look at this from your perspective.
You go on a first date with a decent guy.

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Immediately, he feels incredibly attracted to
you.
He starts to tell you how beautiful you are,
how incredibly fascinating you are, how
amazingly funny you are. He tells you that
he sees a future here; he even tells you
that he’s ready to be exclusive with a girl
like you because you’re just that great.
All of this on the first date!
Now, let me ask this: how do you feel
about this man?
Most women will immediately HATE him.
Why? Because he’s needy, he doesn’t even
see you for who you are, because he’s just
projecting his desire to be with someone,
onto you.
It doesn’t matter if he’s just being himself
and hoping you’ll give him a chance, you
won’t give him a chance because he
doesn’t have any value in your eyes.
So, don’t you think this is exactly how a
man feels when you are infatuated with him
and he stops calling? You’re so impressed
with him that there’s no challenge, no need
for hard work. Basically, it’s all just of
matter of him saying “when”.
The secret lies in your perceived value.
The more he has to work for you, the
higher your perceived value. If he doesn’t
have to work, then there’s no perceived
value. Men love the chase and you have to
make the chase part of you dating routine.
It doesn’t matter how you feel about a guy,
if there’s no chase, then there’s no guy.
I’m not saying it’s essential to play games
but it is essential to have a high perceived
value. If you’re overwhelmed with
emotions, don’t show them. If you are not
sure about how you’re going to behave on
the next date, postpone the date until you
feel more relaxed.
When you find a guy you really like, play
it cool.

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Do not let him know that you like him so
much. Make him work for you. Put those
emotions aside and start acting like you do
when you’re with your best friends. Be
your confident, playful, self assured self.
You have a much better chance of getting
somewhere with a guy you actually like if
you’re your BEST self than if you’re that
needy, overly excited version of you.
Finally, try not to judge men so hard for
doing the exact same things that you do
on a date. He’s just being honest and
there’s nothing wrong with that, right?
I honestly believe that a guy who is excited
around you is going to be much better long
term than that guy who is NOT excited
around you. Even though you might see this
as a sign of weakness (and it may very well be) when it comes something meaningful
and long term, this guy might actually be
better than the rest. So, do your best not
to hold it against him.
It’s easy to judge a guy for being needy
around you, for being into you too much.
But, it’s not always that easy to see
when you’re being the same way.

Source:womensguide.com 

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